How to be positive: 11 magical way

Everyone in this world knows the power of Positivity. The problem is nobody know how to feel positive. Here in this article I will tell you about the practical way to be positive in all the situation (based on my experience). 

But before that you should know what is positivity and why It is necessary in our daily life.

What is postivity

Positivity is a state of emotion in which a person feel good and engergetic.

A person with a positive attitude will see every problem as a opportunity. By having this quality we handle any situation better.

A optimist see opportunity in every difficulties whereas a pessimist see difficulty in every opportunity.

1. Find opportunities in every situation

I know the above statement feels very good but when it comes to ground reality we always find problem in everything right.

So let me explain you with my example. Earlier whenever I use to deal with a hard situation I always ask myself why is this happening with me only.

I am not worth of it, I can’t do anything.  This type of self talk I used to tell myself But later I realize that every situation taught me something.

everything happened in our life is happening for some reason.

2. Don’t try to run away from the problem

Whenever I  feel stuck in any situation I always try to go away from it but later I felt how many time I can run away from it that problem will still exist so why should not I find the solution to that problem.

For example- I attended an party where some of my friends called me to dance with them. At starting I hasitated a lot I am trying to escape from that situation but that didn’t work they forced me to dance but the good thing is that when I started dancing I feel good and all my hesitation has gone. So the point is we create problem in our mind not in reality.(try this out guys it really work this seem to be small example but trust me it’s impact is big) I feel very positive after that.

So the point here is you can’t escape from any situation until you are living on this earth. Try to handle that situation it will only help in your growth. That create positivity. Belief me if it worked for me then it will definetly work for you.

3. Block negative thought immediately

It is the most important factor that we find it difficult to stay positive all the time.

I observe whenever I feel positive  all thing done in a good way, but whenever I surrounded by a negative feeling it become very difficult to enter into positive state.

Pro tip- observe your thought whether it is negative or positive. If it is negative then block it immediately don’t feel that negative thought for longer time. Otherwise that emotion will take control over your mind then you find it difficult to think positive thought. Start the day with positive thought when you wake up only fill your mind with positive thought then you feel good all the day

4. Get the work done

Another practical way to stay positive is that always complete your dream work which is very important for you. If you are working on a goal then no matter how much busy you are if you decided to complete a portion of your dream work you should complete work on that day.

Many research has been done to show that working on your goal create positivity

I  always try to do my important work first then non-important.

5. Never give up

It is very difficult to stay positive when we have given our soul to our work and still we didn’t get result. Here in this condition I always tell myself I have only in my hand is hard work the result is not in my hand and I should never give up one day I will definetly get there. That create positivity.

6. Surround yourself with positive people

It is very important point to stay positive. Whenever you hang out with those people who are positive, driven to their goal they make you feel inspired. Don’t spend time with negative people.

 I earlier spend lots of time with negative people they always have complain about their situation and life and blame their condition for circumstance and other people that affect my mentality too.

The next question coming to your mind will be what if all my surrounding people are negative then what to do. The answer is which I practically do is don’t listen to their negative view.

7. Dressed up well

Many research show that I also personally feel that whenever you dressed up well you feel positive. Whenever I go outside and if I am not well dressed I feel awkared. You also feel something like this but never noticed make it your habit to dressed up well.

8. Cultivate the habit of gratitude

We always complain that we don’t  have that we don’t have this but as we start giving thanks to god whatever we have it will create positivity. We should remember that whatever we have some people does’nt have all that also.

9. Take criticism in a healthy way

Who love criticism nobody right, but you can’t avoid criticism you should take criticism in a healthy way. Not all criticism are against your growth. It sometime teaches you something good. You should think what can I learn from that criticism.

10. Focus on one thing at a time

Focusing on multitasking seem to be good but the result will be zero that because when you focus on multitasking on the same time no work get done and if do in that way you will not get quality result whereas focusing on a single task will improve the task and that work will done with quality and that increase your positivity.

11. Reward yourself for your accomplishment

Rewarding yourself for your accomplishment is a good way to be positive because whenever you reward yourself after accomplishing any task the brain feel pleasure and it make you keep going and work toward your goal without being lazy.

I hope I cleared all aspect on positivity. Please comment, share if find useful and Feel free to ask any question